Lasting Letters

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Memories

     Remember. Memories are the mental motion pictures of our lives. And given proper encouragement they can be even more vivid, because they are real. Identify three favorite experiences you shared. Can you remember the sights, sounds and smells surrounding your memories of the experiences? Whether special occasions, rich family traditions or spontaneous special moments, bring these experiences to life by engaging the senses and explaining what they meant to you.

Appreciation

     Thank and praise. It is a rare turtle that finds itself atop a fence post through its own efforts. How have your loved ones helped you, in ways large and small? Perhaps it was the sacrifice of your parent(s) who struggled to provide for your daily needs, usually ahead of their own? Or maybe it was your older brother who taught you how to read, as well as catch bullfrogs? Thank your loved ones for the investment they made in your life, then praise them for the qualities you admire in them.

Wisdom

     With the death of every human being, a library of wisdom borne of experience disappears. What have you learned in life's classroom that you can share or spare your loved ones? What have you learned about growing up, growing old, faith, family and work? Remember: Unless you share what you have learned, and even unlearned, your loved ones are as likely to repeat your defeats as they are to repeat your successes. And the tuition can be expensive in physical, emotional, financial and spiritual capital. Consider devoting a separate paragraph of your wisdom to the subjects you find most essential.

Conclusion

     Whether your financial estate is large or modest, the most important estate you have in this life is not in your relationship to things, but to people. Take time today to write your lasting letter to loved ones. Long after any inheritance is spent, your letters will be priceless treasures, perhaps shared for generations to come.

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